I sometimes hear from wives whose husbands can’t or won’t be honest about his feelings toward the marriage. These husbands will sometimes claim that their feelings are conflicted and this usually makes the wife want to uncover his feelings that much more. And wives can wonder if he’s legitimately confused or just using this as an excuse.
After over two decades of struggling myself and working through love and fetish play with thousands of individuals and couples, I have finally begun to understand the complex and intricate web of relationship intimacy. It begins with a clear understanding of the 3 causes of all relationship problems and the 9 areas of focus for relationship healing. The framework is established. The inner work begins and over time the outer world naturally conforms to your inner longing.
After therapy the tools are lounging around their room. They get an idea to get Tool Academy tattoos. Are you guys serious? They answered my question when they are shown running into a tattoo shop like apes. Good grief. Charm thought it was cool to get the words Tool Academy right above his….lets say private area, so Andrea can see it every time he pulls his pants down (eye roll). The rest of the tools got their tattoos on their calves.
If this is my true soulmate… and we are connected physically, spiritually and karmically, how can we use every day together to learn, grow and evolve as partners in progress to fulfill our purpose?
His friends are not committed. It’s kind of a guy thing. Most guys in a group would not want to be the first one to be tied to a relationship. The last guy that actually does gets respect for it.
Balancing Your Need For The Absolute Truth With His Need For Breathing Room: A huge problem that the wife faced was that every time she brought up trust issues because of her husband’s little white lies, he would pretty much mutter “here we go again” and just start to tune her out. He would then paint her as a paranoid nag, which would make her wonder what he was hiding.
How he feels about himself physically can also impact whether or not he wants to make love. Just as we get focused on those few extra pounds we’ve gained, men do much the same thing. If you hear your husband making comments about how he wishes he was thinner or he stresses that he wants to get in better shape, get on board and help him with that. Work out together and cook healthy meals as a couple. It will help you both get toned and it will also allow you the chance to get reconnected in a very unique way.